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My journey with addiction began at the tender age of ten, a path that swiftly led to significant trouble. By my early teenage years, I had already faced arrests for drug-related offenses at two educational institutions. Following my expulsion from the second school, I entered my first long-term rehabilitation program in 1968, at the age of fourteen. The landscape of addiction treatment in those days was considerably less developed, with fewer dedicated centers. The facility I was admitted to was called Synanon. Initially, the environment held a certain allure for me. I found myself removed from the pressures of school and the constraints of my parents, immersed in a community of individuals grappling with addiction, alcoholism, and criminal histories. I perceived them as seasoned mentors, and my primary motivation was not cessation of use, but rather an immersion into what felt like an advanced curriculum in addiction.
Within Synanon, I encountered a diverse array of individuals, from whom I learned about confidence games, various criminal enterprises, and survival hustles. This period also exposed me to the rich world of jazz, introducing me to musicians like Art Pepper. Encouragement to engage with literature was abundant; I was prompted to read authors such as Ralph Waldo Emerson and Henry David Thoreau, and introduced to the groundbreaking work of R. Buckminster Fuller, a visionary inventor and philosopher.
Fifteen months after my departure from Synanon, I reintegrated into public schooling. It was during this time that I met Jamie Fuller, Buckminster Fuller’s grandson. Through Jamie, I was introduced to Buckminster Fuller himself. I actively sought opportunities to spend time with him whenever his travels brought him to town. He maintained a daily ritual of drinking tea, a practice I have since adopted. My role often involved ensuring his teapot remained full, running errands, and listening intently to his perspectives. Fuller described his approach as "comprehensive anticipatory design science," positioning himself as a generalist rather than a specialist. This philosophy significantly influenced my ability to perceive underlying patterns.
Fuller shared with me that he had once battled alcoholism and, during a period with a wife and young child, had fallen into a profound, suicidal depression. Contemplating ending his life, he questioned the fundamental meaning and purpose of existence. Instead of acting on his despair, he resolved to dedicate a year to introspection, during which he observed a vow of silence. In a moment of profound clarity, he concluded that given the universality of human problems, our inherent purpose must be problem-solving. This intuitive realization mirrored two key aspects of the Buddhist noble eightfold path: right view and right mindfulness. The term "right," in this context, is often translated as "wise," signifying well-being and liberation from suffering, rather than a moralistic judgment. Right mindfulness prompts a simple yet crucial inquiry: What are we attending to, and where is this attention leading us? Right view involves recognizing that problems can serve as catalysts for solutions. The inherent interdependence of problems and solutions is a fundamental concept. The dualities we experience in life, such as joy and sorrow, success and failure, arise and are understood in relation to each other.
On one occasion, while in Fuller’s company, I attempted to impress him with a critical commentary I had adopted from my elder brother. My underlying motive was to solicit praise, but Fuller responded with a poignant observation: "Peter, it’s easy to be brilliantly negative. The challenge is to be brilliantly positive and find solutions to our problems." The wisdom of this guidance continues to resonate deeply with me, both within the framework of Buddhist teachings and in the context of recovery.
The Buddha’s teachings are often summarized by the Four Noble Truths: the reality of suffering, the cause of suffering, the possibility of freedom from suffering, and the path to that freedom. Although the Buddha addressed suffering directly, his ultimate aim was its cessation – a profoundly positive aspiration. Years after my conversation with Fuller and my initial encounters with mindfulness, when I first heard the Twelve-Step program described as "solution-oriented," I experienced a quiet sense of recognition and alignment. Fuller’s influence had instilled in me a conviction that these pathways to liberation were indeed attainable. As Fuller posited, problems present opportunities for problem-solving. Suffering, the first of the Four Noble Truths, is not an insurmountable barrier but rather a gateway to understanding. It serves as an invitation, not a final destination. Through the application of right view and right mindfulness, pain and suffering can transform into a valuable warning system, illuminating the causes of our distress and revealing the potential for freedom.
The innate human desire for happiness is a powerful motivator, even enshrined as an unalienable right in the United States Declaration of Independence. For me, drugs initially represented the epitome of happiness. However, a critical question arises: what happens when our very conception of happiness becomes the root cause of our suffering?
Samsara: The Cycle of Suffering
I once perceived drugs as a form of emotional alchemy, capable of instantaneously altering my mood and my perception of myself, others, and my life. While I acknowledged the problems they generated, I attributed them to misfortune and external circumstances. Drugs served as my medicine, my companion, and my confidant. They facilitated my ability to face the day and to find rest at night. The consequences – incarceration, illness, and eventual homelessness – seemed a justifiable price to pay, a fair exchange, until the burden became unbearable.
Everything that unsettled me felt like a curse, a testament to my unworthiness and the inherent unfairness of life. I recognized the necessity of stopping, yet abstinence felt like a profound loss. I was unable to relinquish the belief that drugs held some intrinsic value or benefit for me.
One day, I took a bus to Santa Monica, where I had left my car. The ocean air was invigorating, and the scent was refreshingly clean. I had no specific destination, but I attempted to imbue my steps with a sense of purpose and optimism. I was convinced that this time would be different; I would find a girlfriend, secure a job, and abstain from narcotics. As I approached the house of a friend where my car was parked, I felt a sense of resolve. The sound of a television emanated from within, and I paused to collect myself. My plan was clear: I was determined not to use heroin. This marked a new beginning.
However, upon opening the screen door, I was met with a scene of disarray. Trash was piled in a corner, and the kitchen was filled with the odor of accumulated garbage. The living room bore the hallmarks of chaos, resembling the aftermath of a tornado. My own incarceration had been cleaner than this environment. My friend, Freddie, was slumped in an old armchair, facing a small black-and-white television perched precariously on a milk crate, its antenna fashioned from a coat hanger. Freddie was clearly under the influence, his eyes heavy-lidded and his chin resting on his chest. A lit cigarette dangled from his hand, its ash extending an alarming two inches. Standing in the doorway, I was taken aback by my immediate thought: I wondered if he had more drugs. Absurd as it sounds, his state of inebriation appeared inviting. Witnessing myself ask for drugs felt like an out-of-body experience. My intuition screamed against it, but the force of desire overwhelmed my better judgment. "Fuck it," I thought. I had been incarcerated; I was due for a high. The prospect of getting high consumed me. Where was mine?
I was utterly defenseless. My carefully constructed plans disintegrated. I was once again on the path of active addiction. The adage that insanity is repeating the same action and expecting different results became acutely relevant. Buddhists refer to this cycle of persistent suffering as the wheel of samsara: an unending loop of wanting, obtaining, regretting, and repeating. Did I genuinely expect a different outcome this time? In the throes of obsession, such a question never arose. The rational, mindful part of my brain had effectively shut down. I was consumed by a craving that felt like an absolute necessity, rendering all else inconsequential.
I used drugs for the last time just a month later. What precipitated this change? What made me receptive to guidance?
Step Zero
Reaching "rock bottom" is often characterized as a moment of profound reckoning, a period where denial dissolves in the wake of one’s actions. On January 5, 1986, the devastating consequences of my addiction became impossible to ignore. It was not the first time I had recognized the destructive impact of drugs on my life. I had already sold my cherished musical instruments, trading the solace of music for the grip of addiction. I was living in my car, with my entire worldly possessions consisting of a bag of dirty clothes, a dulled syringe, and a pistol. While any one of these might have served as a rock bottom for another individual, on that particular morning, I was still clinging to a distorted illusion of power and control.
Individuals in the throes of addiction often pursue immediate relief, actively suppressing thoughts of consequences, convinced that the perceived benefits outweigh the costs, until the pain becomes unbearable. My brother, Richard, was also an addict. When he introduced me to opiates, he offered a piece of advice: "Pete, you’ll probably throw up, but don’t worry, it’s just part of the high." I internalized this as a life lesson.
A true bottom is a moment of surrender, occurring when the pain we are experiencing surpasses the pain we are attempting to evade. For some, the physical discomfort of withdrawal is sufficient. For others, it may involve the loss of a job or relationship, incarceration, hospitalization, or homelessness. Tragically, for Richard and many others, the ultimate bottom is death. I was incarcerated when his suffering reached an unbearable level, and suicide appeared to be the only recourse for surrender he could find. My family had severed contact a year prior, and I only learned of his death upon my release.
On the morning of January 5, 1986, I sat in my car, feeling profoundly unwell and defeated. Too weak to continue my present course, I looked at my gun and contemplated how I might obtain the funds necessary to "get well" again. There had been periods where I romanticized the lifestyle of an addict, even taking a perverse pride in the crimes I had committed. Those days, however, were long gone. My last act of robbery involved holding up a man selling bags of oranges on a freeway off-ramp. I sped away as if I had robbed a bank, attempting to outrun my shame. By this point, even shoplifting seemed a daunting prospect.
I was ensnared in a quagmire of drug sickness and despair, the weight of the gun heavy in my hand. I had no idea how to stop using, nor could I envision a life devoid of drugs. My thoughts turned to Richard. Just a month prior, he had sat in his car before ending his life with a bullet. Looking down the barrel of my own gun, I saw only an abyss of loneliness and despair.
Then, something shifted. A will to live, however faint, pierced through the suffocating cloud of self-centered fear. I did not want to die. I did not even desire the fleeting solace of the next fix. All I yearned for was a place to lie down and endure the agony of withdrawal in peace. In that instant, a profound realization dawned: drugs were the sole reason I found myself in that car, in that desperate state. The ephemeral comfort they provided was invariably followed by a deeper, more profound suffering. This nascent flicker of hope for peace marked a significant turning point.
I harbored a deep-seated fear of forgetting this truth. Addiction is often described as a disease of forgetfulness, where the memory of euphoria eclipses the pain. I was terrified that this sudden clarity would dissipate. It had happened before. I knew I would not survive another cycle of relapse. How could I preserve this newfound realization?
For the first time, the feelings of fear, loneliness, and despair were not problems to be escaped, but experiences of profound value. I was determined to imprint this moment onto my very being – to allow it to become a resource, a lasting catalyst for change. Without consciously recognizing it, I was cultivating mindfulness, fully present with my suffering and guided by a nascent, positive intention. I meticulously focused on remembering the visceral sensation of that loneliness: the aching in my bones, the restless churning of my intestines, the chilling fear that permeated every pore. This raw, physical memory became a cherished counterpoint to the seductive fantasies of getting high that inevitably resurfaced. My mind had long served as a refuge, allowing me to escape the confines of my body and bypass overwhelming emotions. However, in that car that morning, something fundamentally different occurred. I turned towards the feelings rather than away from them. I sank deeper into my body, fully present with the raw sensations of the moment, delving beneath the stories and thoughts of escape. My mind and body no longer felt like separate entities. For a brief, transformative period, I experienced an embodied mind and a mindful body.
I later learned that the Buddha referred to this practice as "mindfulness of body." His phrase, "mindfulness of the body in the body," emphasizes inhabiting the body rather than merely thinking about it. Insight, in this context, is not an abstract concept but an embodied experience, where the initial shock of "oh shit" gives way to the realization of "aha."
I had allowed thoughts of getting high to dictate my actions. Initially, I entertained them; subsequently, they morphed into an all-consuming obsession. The clarity of that moment in my Pinto automobile provided me with a new tool. When the thought of using arose, I learned to listen to my body, to recall the profound despair I had felt in that car. This physical memory became a potent antidote to the euphoric recall that had fueled my addiction. Instead of fixating on an imagined rush or release, analyzing the craving, or attempting to negotiate with it, I began to associate the thought of getting high with its inevitable consequence: the full-body despair and fear I had experienced so acutely that morning. Turning my attention from mind to body grounded me and proved to be a liberating experience. I was no longer a passive victim of my obsessions.
Each time I had relapsed, my body had attempted to signal a warning: a tightening in the gut, a hollow sensation, a constricting throat, a heavy weight in the chest. I had consistently drowned these physical sensations in a torrent of thoughts, thereby bypassing them. The human mind is remarkably adept at denial and rationalization. The "gut check" has since become an invaluable guide for me.
When I ceased resisting and instead embraced painful moments, fear, shame, and pain transformed into noble experiences, revealing both the source of suffering and the possibility of its cessation. Over time, the imagined relief of using became inextricably linked with the embodied memory of that January morning – what I now refer to as my "Pinto moment." This capacity to rewire our thoughts, responses, and behaviors is now scientifically understood as neuroplasticity.
How peculiar it is that the intoxicants I once mistook for happiness were revealed as the very source of my suffering, while abstinence, once feared as a form of suffering, ultimately became the wellspring of true happiness. My profound insight did not originate from a book; no one could teach me the art of surrender. It arose from a moment of intense presence, stripped bare of excuses and delusion. When I was sufficiently broken down to relinquish my belief in drugs as a solution, a medicine, or a superpower, it became undeniably clear that they were, in fact, a primary cause of my suffering. I consider this the threshold of "step zero," the critical juncture many of us cross before recovery can truly commence. It is the clarity born of surrender that underpins a genuine commitment to abstinence. No longer using became a liberation from the suffering that had defined my existence. Regardless of the difficulties I might encounter, I understood that drugs would only exacerbate them. Abstinence was no longer perceived as a loss or a sacrifice; it evolved into a source of profound joy.
Appropriate Attention
Moments of profound insight, however transformative, can often fade as we are inevitably swept along by the currents of life. How, then, do we preserve their impact? The recovery program offered a clear and actionable answer to this question.
The concept of surrender is often misconstrued, typically associated with defeat. However, within the contexts of Zen Buddhism and recovery, surrender signifies letting go, not giving up. It is a beautiful and empowering act: choosing to act from a place of conscious choice rather than reactive conditioning. Through developing awareness, we learn to release our resistance rather than perpetuate or combat it. We loosen the grip of rigid perspectives, of our preconceived notions about how things "should" be when they starkly contrast with the reality we are experiencing. Surrender represents a fundamental shift in perception, a softening that creates space for a new, more constructive perspective to emerge.
The experience of hitting bottom instilled in me a powerful willingness to do whatever it took to maintain my sobriety. I never wanted to revisit that state of utter despair. If an answer lay within the rooms of recovery, I was determined to find it. I had no other recourse. The desperation that once fueled my addiction became "the gift of desperation," nourishing my commitment to remain clean "no matter what." I grasped with absolute clarity that regardless of how dire circumstances became, drugs would ultimately serve only to worsen them.
With this profound surrender, I became receptive to learning. I returned to recovery meetings, driven by a hunger for guidance rather than the craving for intoxicants. I was ready to absorb knowledge, and it no longer mattered who was speaking, where they had come from, what substances they had used, or whether they bore tattoos. If someone possessed wisdom that could aid me in staying clean, I was eager to hear it. Everyone became a potential teacher.
Maintaining my sobriety became my paramount priority. I was encouraged to approach the recovery program with the same intensity I had previously applied to my addiction, and I understood precisely what that entailed. I was advised to attend ninety meetings in ninety days, secure a sponsor, and engage with the literature daily. I initially questioned whether I was merely exchanging one form of dependency for another. It felt somewhat cultish to structure my entire life around the program rather than integrating it into my life. However, I was, in essence, being trained in what the Buddha termed "appropriate attention." Prioritizing the recovery program was akin to focusing on the breath during meditation. I learned to discern what actions and thoughts deepened and encouraged my recovery and what pulled me away from it. I was effectively replacing chemical dependency with a pathway to genuine freedom.
In the time of the Buddha, buildings were often constructed using wooden pegs. Over years of exposure to rain and weather, these pegs would rot. If a rotten peg was removed without immediate replacement, the entire structure could collapse. However, if a new peg was carefully tapped into place, it would naturally push out the old one. Addiction and recovery mirrored this process for me. The cessation of drug use created a void that threatened to pull me back into the vortex of old habit energies. Recovery provided me with a new peg. I replaced old ways of thinking and living with new, constructive ones, committing myself to this process as if my life depended on it – because, in reality, it did.
Surrender is a shift in perception, a softening that allows a new perspective to appear.
Happiness, like all phenomena, is transient. Through mind training, also known as appropriate attention, we can cultivate the ability to refresh and renew our capacity for well-being. The conditions for happiness are perpetually available if we learn to look deeply. My experiences with Zen have demonstrated that it is always possible to cultivate a sense of happiness. This may seem like a daunting task when facing personal loss or succumbing to depression. Yet, I encountered a similar sentiment in early recovery: "Any day clean is a good day." Happiness, in this context, is relative. Things could always be worse.
For the most part, happiness is perceived as conditional: "I will be happy when…" or "I am happy because…" Yet, even amidst grief, illness, or injustice, we possess the inherent capacity to recognize and nurture seeds of joy. Happiness is not entirely dictated by external circumstances. As my teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh, wisely stated, "Sometimes your smile is the result of your happiness. Sometimes your happiness is the result of your smile." Moments of well-being can be as simple as experiencing abstinence or breathing freely.
Reactions often arise instantaneously but can easily spiral into a self-perpetuating loop, transforming a single moment into the entirety of our narrative. We take a snapshot and expand it into a full-length film, replaying it endlessly, each time amplifying our distress until it becomes an inescapable spiral of suffering. Through mindfulness and appropriate attention, we reclaim our capacity to respond. Our rigid grip loosens, and spaciousness returns. Surrender, reframing, and reorienting – in essence, making conscious choices – become possible once again.
The Twelve Steps, much like mindfulness meditation, cultivate awareness and discernment. They help to soften our ingrained negativity bias and transform afflictive states into something beneficial. The simple act of noticing our reactivity opens the space for a deliberate response. We train ourselves in responsiveness rather than reflex. True freedom is not found in controlling our triggers; it is discovered in recognizing and fully engaging with our afflicted states. It is within these moments of honest confrontation that genuine healing and growth occur.
